Please take note that this post is a note to self. Anyone who might be suffering before, while or after reading this, please I insist you to just navigate away from this personal blog. Like, seriously.
Ever since we were born, have we ever thought on how mess our life can be? How disastrous our day may appear. And, do we always know, if today's gonna be fine or miserable? One's life never gonna be perfect. That's a fact. A very terrifying fact to deal with.
And what is the first thing that pops into your mind when you wake up? House works, schools, chores, assignment, loved ones etc etc. For once, did you ever let your mind think, for at least once, that how grateful you are to wake up like yesterday. Without losing your sight, missing your ears or even, how grateful you are to be able to breathe? How happy you can be to see your parents are waiting for you at the dinner table, even though they're not smiling at you, even though they don't kiss your forehead. Parents are not like friends. We believe that they sometimes don't even know a single word we're saying. They may argue with all of our decisions. Argue over a small, tiny thing. Yet we never try to find or think of the reason why they keep scolding us, like every single thing we do is such a catastrophe. We are not too young to think, but we're just too numb to be rational. That's why we put the blame on them and think of how amazing life can be without their nagging. Well Mr/Ms Perfect, who are you without them and who the hell are you to blame their existence? Think, without the fertilization of sperm and the ovum, you might not be where you are right now. So don't be too proud of your fame and name because you're nothing, but only a tiny creature who was once being carried in the womb for 9 months. 9 months of pain, ever noticed that? Parents are the two things in this world that can never be replaced. How harsh they are, how ugly they looked, how painful their words, how annoying they act, how negligent they are, they're still your parents. Love them, appreciate them while they're still here.
And why do we always being mean to others? Do we only live just to hurt them and feel disturbed to see someone else's happiness? Why bother to take others' happiness if you already have it? Let them live, people. Who are we to be happy while some people get hurt because of us? Don't build your own fantasy by destroying others'. Don't just think about ourselves. They have reasons why they're being like that. To Err is Human, To Forgive Divine. One reason why we live in hatred is because, we never try to be in their shoes. We often think that they are the reason of our hatred. But why? What is the cause? Ever think? No, you never think that maybe all this misunderstood started because of us. Our own self. We keep blaming others and act like we're the victims. Like everyone is torturing us mentally. But we never blame ourselves. Never once. Nothing more to say, probably because we think that perfection is our middle name. Did you ever encounter a hardship in your life? When you are being hated and you have to live in grief and misery. When you have to face your day in darkness and hateful. Like you never have the chance to breathe in pleasure. I did. And I blame people of what had happened. But soon I realized, if they didn't hate you, are you please to see yourself grieving every night? Are you able to stand as strong as you are right now? See, we always think in such a pessimistic way. Why don't we start to think in the optimistic way? Be cool people. Let's live in harmony and peace.
And if we think that we have the right to do everything just like what we crave for, and nothing's gonna stop you from doing what you want, think, where did you come from? It's Him that lend you this world. So appreciate it :)
Ever since we were born, have we ever thought on how mess our life can be? How disastrous our day may appear. And, do we always know, if today's gonna be fine or miserable? One's life never gonna be perfect. That's a fact. A very terrifying fact to deal with.
And what is the first thing that pops into your mind when you wake up? House works, schools, chores, assignment, loved ones etc etc. For once, did you ever let your mind think, for at least once, that how grateful you are to wake up like yesterday. Without losing your sight, missing your ears or even, how grateful you are to be able to breathe? How happy you can be to see your parents are waiting for you at the dinner table, even though they're not smiling at you, even though they don't kiss your forehead. Parents are not like friends. We believe that they sometimes don't even know a single word we're saying. They may argue with all of our decisions. Argue over a small, tiny thing. Yet we never try to find or think of the reason why they keep scolding us, like every single thing we do is such a catastrophe. We are not too young to think, but we're just too numb to be rational. That's why we put the blame on them and think of how amazing life can be without their nagging. Well Mr/Ms Perfect, who are you without them and who the hell are you to blame their existence? Think, without the fertilization of sperm and the ovum, you might not be where you are right now. So don't be too proud of your fame and name because you're nothing, but only a tiny creature who was once being carried in the womb for 9 months. 9 months of pain, ever noticed that? Parents are the two things in this world that can never be replaced. How harsh they are, how ugly they looked, how painful their words, how annoying they act, how negligent they are, they're still your parents. Love them, appreciate them while they're still here.
And why do we always being mean to others? Do we only live just to hurt them and feel disturbed to see someone else's happiness? Why bother to take others' happiness if you already have it? Let them live, people. Who are we to be happy while some people get hurt because of us? Don't build your own fantasy by destroying others'. Don't just think about ourselves. They have reasons why they're being like that. To Err is Human, To Forgive Divine. One reason why we live in hatred is because, we never try to be in their shoes. We often think that they are the reason of our hatred. But why? What is the cause? Ever think? No, you never think that maybe all this misunderstood started because of us. Our own self. We keep blaming others and act like we're the victims. Like everyone is torturing us mentally. But we never blame ourselves. Never once. Nothing more to say, probably because we think that perfection is our middle name. Did you ever encounter a hardship in your life? When you are being hated and you have to live in grief and misery. When you have to face your day in darkness and hateful. Like you never have the chance to breathe in pleasure. I did. And I blame people of what had happened. But soon I realized, if they didn't hate you, are you please to see yourself grieving every night? Are you able to stand as strong as you are right now? See, we always think in such a pessimistic way. Why don't we start to think in the optimistic way? Be cool people. Let's live in harmony and peace.
And if we think that we have the right to do everything just like what we crave for, and nothing's gonna stop you from doing what you want, think, where did you come from? It's Him that lend you this world. So appreciate it :)
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